Today's question comes from Twitter:
I read your post about the swinger club and BDSM night. I was curious if you included yourself or just observed.
The short answer is that I just observed...this time.
When I walked in to the bar, I was nervous and had the creepy clammy hands going on while I drained my vaporizer tank. I didn't know what to expect. Coming around the corner, I was greeted with the most erotic seen I have ever laid eyes one.
Next to her, a woman was bent over the spanking benches with her skirt up around her waist.
I missed most of the party but I had never experienced anything so sensual and arousing. I didn't want to participate just then. I wanted to drink in the sights. There were flogging racks and I think I would very much like to be rigged to them one day. There were aftercare blankets because the community cares about safety and respect. It was wonderful. I will be back. I can't say I will get to participate very much as the newcomer but I will be back.
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That is something too that I would LoVe to do but I'm scared!! I don't know where to even go!!! Where are these sorts of clubs? You have made it to Bad-Ass status my dear friend!!!
ReplyDeleteWell, I can say that in Lexington there is an actual swingers bar where these events are held monthly.
ReplyDeleteIf you were serious about wanting to get into the events, I encourage you to check out the website FetLife.com. Lexington for example has established their community there and they schedule the events through the website.
I know, first hand, that it could be scary. I would go so far as to say that it was terrifying and facing that fear is hard but so worth it in the end. Honestly. I had a blast.
That first time will always stick in your mind. It's glorious when you have a great experience.
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