Wednesday, June 18, 2014

Reader's Response: What Did You Do?

It really is a special thrill when people comment on blog posts outside of the blog. I get messages, and comments, and text messages and even SnapChats about posts. It makes me feel like I have ascended to bad-ass status!

Today's question comes from Twitter:

I read your post about the swinger club and BDSM night. I was curious if you included yourself or just observed.

The short answer is that I just observed...this time.

When I walked in to the bar, I was nervous and had the creepy clammy hands going on while I drained my vaporizer tank. I didn't know what to expect. Coming around the corner, I was greeted with the most erotic seen I have ever laid eyes one.

There was a beautifully naked woman on stage who was being roped and bound. She looked like she was in heaven. I was instantly drunk watching her.

Next to her, a woman was bent over the spanking benches with her skirt up around her waist.

I missed most of the party but I had never experienced anything so sensual and arousing. I didn't want to participate just then. I wanted to drink in the sights. There were flogging racks and I think I would very much like to be rigged to them one day. There were aftercare blankets because the community cares about safety and respect. It was wonderful. I will be back. I can't say I will get to participate very much as the newcomer but I will be back.

Image Credit: Boardwalk Empire


  1. That is something too that I would LoVe to do but I'm scared!! I don't know where to even go!!! Where are these sorts of clubs? You have made it to Bad-Ass status my dear friend!!!

  2. Well, I can say that in Lexington there is an actual swingers bar where these events are held monthly.

    If you were serious about wanting to get into the events, I encourage you to check out the website Lexington for example has established their community there and they schedule the events through the website.

    I know, first hand, that it could be scary. I would go so far as to say that it was terrifying and facing that fear is hard but so worth it in the end. Honestly. I had a blast.

  3. That first time will always stick in your mind. It's glorious when you have a great experience.